I'm still working on my boundaries. I'm not really coming up with much. I told him I don't want that snotty tone to his voice when he speaks to me and he's already changed that a month ago. I told him that I don't want him seeing OW, but can't control that and he's as dark to me as you can be living in the same house, so what could I do to him?
He's back to ignoring his children, so I suspect he's back with OW.
I don't cook or clean for him, just take care of the children. He does his own laundry and won't eat what I cook, so it's him that's separated that from me. He doesn't want me doing anything nice for him, so even though I wasn't going to, he now sees it as his rejection of me, versus me taking a stand.
He barely talks to me unless he has to.
I just don't see any boundaries I can set... I really need MORE interaction with him, not less. I think he's afraid of seeing that I'm making changes and being tempted back to me. I know he doesn't want to sleep in the same bed with me because he's afraid of "slipping" and ML again. He knows that kept us together last time.
