How do I expose the affair

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mb28,

I just wanted to thank you and allen and everyone for brining me to Divorce Busting. I was searching one day for how to expose my W affair with OM. I remember your thread brought so much comfort and help to me when I needed it most. I read it everyday. I got to page 95, and that was all there was. I did find Divorce Busting and created my own thread, but I always wondered how you were doing. I am glad to see that you are still working on your sitch and not D. I have admired you and the way you have handled your sitch, and the wonderful people here that have given you so much support. I am thankful for all the people here that have been so supportive of me too.

I started reading your thread again, and I remembered the reason I came here again and that is to save my marriage. I was ready to file for D tomorrow, but I think I am going to wait. I am also going to expose to the OMW even though she has not been there yet and a kid answers. I am a little worried about harrassment, so I am trying to make sure that the OMW is there when I call again.

You have just inspired me again to not give up. I was going to file to make sure that she does not first. I do not want to lose my kids and I thought it would be better. I am in California.

I will keep checking your sitch, and I will keeping wishing the very best that you will be able to save your marriage!!!

Sorry if it was inappropriate to write this in your thread. I do not want to hijack or anything.

Thank you and everyone here again!!!!!!!