Hi Mish...wow I've been away a while and just catching up.. gosh!!! I have been reading and at first I was actually excited for you.. you know I never believed you all those times you said you were done and "that ship has sailed". Its always complicated with you and Gabe and he certainly never seemed done either, despite the illusion of a new R with the broom. I need to read back further to see how that ended!!
But then I saw that he was straight off expecting to be back in the bedroom, whilst also texting a new woman friend...you dont need me to tell you to be careful. Dont beat yourself up for the other night, hey maybe it was carthatic on some level to have him back in your bed once more? I know it would have been for me. But, no harm in resetting that boundary hey!
If you really do still love and care or want this man, I would say, just be compassionate and consistent and no, dont push him. If you like him being in the house, tell him hey. A little gentle honesty is fair enough, if you just talk about how YOU feel and dont ask him to reciprocate. But.. I really need to read back!
love al xx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Its always complicated with you and Gabe and he certainly never seemed done either, despite the illusion of a new R with the broom. I need to read back further to see how that ended!! 
