mindfull, I know you dont want a boat but dear, lets be smart about it, GET the damn boat, the car, the house, whatever you can, get it... You have to take care of your kids..., no? K
Hey, I'll take a boat, but do I want one from my H under these conditions? Ick. I haven't made any decisions or committed to anything. But, hey, if that boat stays, the only way is if it's in MY name only. And, I will rock it.
I have a very full day in the field. I'm sleepy. Red Bull required.
I like my dress, though, and we all know how much that counts.
Chaotic weekend ahead, as well. S10's soccer tournament this weekend. A month ago I volunteered our house for a team party after the Saturday nights game. Party face on? NOT
Back tonight.
Have a good day everyone!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Hang in there Mind! Boat....no boat.....can turn in to cash if needed....or burned in spite! I have a tree in my yard that I think I will be igniting some day soon.
I got my share of guilt gifts....including the major home remodel....that he now can't step foot in.....but it is a home for my kids and me now. I just have to push the memories aside...
All 3 kids are playing tournament ball this weekend - in three different suburban cities. A minimum of 12 games.....I won't get to see them all
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
Ugh about the boat Mindfull. Good luck with your hair
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
At least...........you know (or think you know) it's a "guilt" gift when you got it............instead of thinking back and having that light bulb moment....
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
And, I will rock it.
