I suppose I need to move to "surving the big d", but I like my friends here at newcomers. Really, I still feel like a newcomer. It's only been 5 months. Ha, I remember when I thought 5 months would be an eternity!
So, don't choose. Do both - I am.
Me, too.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac