You're right, it is petty stuff, but I know all she is trying to do is test me. I never thought about the frames/pictures bit, she is only concerned with some crummy frames, it just goes to show how shallow she is.
I will look in on your situation and see if I can offer some support.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years