I think we're both just exhausted from the emotional strain this week. The LM was after a normal day (other than the obvious issues). Since she committed to work on our issues I didn't think it was a "last fling"....or at least I hope not!
By "back off" I mean give her some space but continue to do the things related to my clear priority of the R. I sent flowers today and will bring coffee to her office tomorrow (which isn't anything new) as I have to visit her for business reasons anyway. Beyond that I'll continue to be the man I want to be, love my kids and read the books. It seems the sitch changes every day so I'll continue to seek giudance and monitor opinons here. Thanks!