I would agree on the unfriending thing as well. don't be searching for things. and with "so much time and energy on what HE is doing or not doing". although you sound stronger in regards to him, you are still too focused on what he's doing. but perhaps you are only focusing on those things while you are here, but I'm thinking that may not be the case.


I think if he doesn't contact you for visits, then perhaps you should wait till the next day to respond to him.

you did good to tell him to figure out his half. that is his responsibility.

and if you read that article, it says the breastfeeding actually strengthens their teeth. kinda long, but definitely interesting.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."