Your posts just scream the question...

What do you want your H to be? How do you want him to react?

"Why do I get so anxious about his sessions?"

To me.. it is because you are looking for the change in him.

As an example.... "I can tell they are helping him with some coping skills."

OK.. what is he "coping" with?

Just so you know.. I am lazy. I don't put the proper quotes in. I "" your words and question them.

The other tricky part of my laziness is that I "" words I want you to define.

An example would be... Why is he so "stupid"?

Stupid is the word to define. Use you own words and help me define it.

Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.