Hang in there. DO NOT leave. Let her rage all she wants. Stay cool. You can do it. Once when my W was raging, I calmly held up a mirror at her without looking up from the book I was reading. She asked me what the hell that was for, so I told her it was so she could see how she was acting. She got pissed, but calmed down soon after.
All calm and cool.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.