Ooh, is it GALing if I get into the DB forums' dramz too much? I think so! smile Just kinda kidding, but I appreciate Allen A's perspective. You've got a spicy personality, Allen A!

Overall, I agree with AA. (I'm sure we all do.) I just think it's easier said (especially said to) than done.

And then if you fully embrace the "putting H out of your head" idea, does that mean you stay away from this site? Because seriously, I think we need to keep chatting somehow, ladies!

(So let me just propose-- if any of you want to get away from this site to help GAL, let's meet somewhere else to keep chatting babies and generally non-H stuff!)

Ok, now that that is off my chest. . . I just wanted to say that I don't know how much I would push the "awful father" thing. I just don't know how that helps, I really don't. I think that he could figure that out on his own.

But overall, good advice that we all need to hear once in a while. Bye for now!

me, 30
WH, 29
D born June 2010
M: July 2001
Bomb/S: 1/14/10
Done with it all.