Robx. there's absolutely no chance of a PA, but there's no way I could rule out an EA. All indications point to no A at all, but I'm not stupid and my eyes and ears are open.
Don't say absolutely no chance. Even the busiest of people have time. They take lunch, that's enough time. Where is she staying now?
I still have no idea if my W had OM. I haven't seen any evidence at all, but I never rule it out. Behaviors point to it, but I haven't been able to find anything.
At this point in my sitch it doesn't matter. But the beginning of a sitch it does. Keep your eyes open. If you snoop, prepare for the worst, and DON'T GET CAUGHT. If you find something, come here first with it. Do not confront her till you get feedback here.
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