It seems to me that the WAWs with the least to complain about in their marriages are the ones who are the nastiest while walking away. Maybe they need that to keep themselves going?
I would agree on that VH and SpyBunny. The level of hate and disgust is ridiculous. Even if I am/was all of the things that she has alleged I STILL would not deserve this treatment.
H: 30 W: 31 S: 2 T/M: 6/4 D Final 4-5-10
Bomb: June 09 Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?
As luck would have it I run my mouth yesterday about a good day and I get body slammed.
I get a phone call yesterday from Day care saying that S2 did not get brought yesterday and is everything ok? as no one had called them?
So I call W at work and she answers (key here for later) but dont say anything about S2 and daycare. Well later W calls me and says that she is at the ER with S2 and he fell and "hit his head". I am very concerned obviously and start to leave to come there and she says that she is already on the way home with him and that he is fine just scraped up his face pretty good.
I ask her where he was and she stammers and says "with me at my parents house" I tell her BS and she knows it---she again tries to continue the lie, by this time we are both at the house.
I go to her phone and open it up and say "I Know"
Where was she, more important where was S2?
XW went to work and instead of taking S2 to daycare she took him to OM house to play with unemployed 15 year older OM and his S4 instead of daycare where he fell off of a patio chair and hit face first on the concrete patio....
I am beyond pissed and need to calm down before doing something to this man. I have already talked to L about this and there is not a lot from a legal standpoint that I can do since there was not an overnight involved, seems the legal system does not have much of a moral compass does it?
H: 30 W: 31 S: 2 T/M: 6/4 D Final 4-5-10
Bomb: June 09 Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?
Heya Buffet...SO glad the bar's still open! I'll have a glass of pink champagne thanks - and I think you need one too (but just a little one *hugs*)
I know how angry you are about this whole debacle but in all honesty (and I KNOW you're going to hate me saying this but it's the truth) It's NOT the OM's fault your S2 fell and got hurt. I suspect that you'd still be mad if it happened elsewhere, but you wouldn't be as vitriolic about it...no?
Your XW should have let you know that she wasn't taking him to daycare and yes, that was stupid of her not to, but that's where the fault ends. Kids fall over and get hurt, it happens - just don't let this blow up into something that is avoidable.
I am so disgusted by cheaters AND liars, and by default most cheaters are liars...haven't heard many stories on here where the spouse says, "Just a heads-up honey, I am going to start sleeping with someone else now..."
So I would be angry too and esp bc he should have been at daycare in the first place.
But sounds like you don't have much leverage legally, sorry, that sucks...
Hey guys, I do not think that OM tried to hurt S2 nor do I think that this will be the last fall or the worst fall that S2 has in his lifetime.
I am MAD that i was lied to AGAIN by XW. I am MAD that he was not where he was supposed to be, what if there was an actual emergency that S2 was needed to be gotten. What if a million things, but also what about I as his dad am supposed to know where and who he is with--it is written in the decree.
Also what if the shoe was on the other foot, how would Xw (or the board) react if a guy had his son at his new girlfriends house unsupervised and he fell and had to go to the ER? I suspect that XW would be up in arms and claim that I was an unfit, lazy, sob of a parent?
That pisses me off and I am justified to be so.
And yes BBJ cards lost....boo!
H: 30 W: 31 S: 2 T/M: 6/4 D Final 4-5-10
Bomb: June 09 Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?
