if I would have been invited over for a late night movie...I would have left a trail of bread crumbs/trail markers/marked a favorite on my GPS...
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So I went with my gut instinct and with a bit of Mike's guidance and shot a quick text out over my break...
"Hey just checking--were you still interested in going out this weekend? I think it would be fun...unless you would rather just stick to having thoughts"
so if he does not answer...he is either
A. Gay B. Interested in someone else more. c. Gay D. does not want to get involved with a co-worker E. Gay
any possibility that he is a "playa"??? and just out to get what he can..I guess the racy texts have me confused...who started those up first?? you or him??
Mike,
Not sure which of the above, honestly gay would not surprise me due to the stereotypcial info that I have--he is 34, not married, and active in music/drama/theater...
I don't know what it is but no response...
I would honestly be more surpised to find out he is a 'player'....if he was a player why would he not be trying to actually get in my pants vs talking about it???
The texting thing was his idea from the start. There was some inside joke on the speech team about him shopping at Victoria's Secret...apparently he went in to pick up lotion for his best friend's (another teacher) gf one day bc he already happened to be at the mall and talking to bf on the phone. Some high school kids saw him in there and they teased him about it...
So anyway one night he was texting the typical, "How is your evening" stuff, I told him I was at Penney's, he said VS had a better selection...next time I was shopping and he texted I sent him a pic of granny panties when he asked me what I was shopping for...then I sent him a pic of cute panties and asked if that was what he was expecting and it sort of spiraled from there...
So anyway no clue wtf is up. In a later texting convo after he came over to my house at 12:45 am and left at 1:45, he said he left bc I seemed nervous...I said I was surprised he didn't try to kiss me and he said he would have liked to do that and more....
So I am stumped. Before any of the flirty texting we had texted for a week about other harmless things we liked to do (movies, golfing, comedy club) and he kept saying "Should we add that to our list" of things to do together. So it isn't like it was just for hooking up...
Not going to let it ruin my week. I am bummed bc I was really looking forward to kissing! And there was lots of rain tonight...
Actually I worked the track meet tonight and it was tons of fun, it poured down rain for a few minutes a couple times but we kept on going. Girls got fifth, they aren't as good as the boys!
