*sigh* Honestly - Dan is going to have to get a grip soon - I just loved the way you told him to look it up on the internet. Surely you don't have to tell him how to tie his shoes? *giggle*
Your puke-guy story made me laugh tons - so looking forward to more date updates
ok BBJ I was relaxing in the bathtub, drinking a cold beer, listening to the radio...the song dust on the bottle came on, and I laughed so hard thinking about some of us here hehehehe...thats bad eh? well not really it included myself lol!!! Hugs to your mom for raising such an amazing woman!!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
if I would have been invited over for a late night movie...I would have left a trail of bread crumbs/trail markers/marked a favorite on my GPS...
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So I went with my gut instinct and with a bit of Mike's guidance and shot a quick text out over my break...
"Hey just checking--were you still interested in going out this weekend? I think it would be fun...unless you would rather just stick to having thoughts"
so if he does not answer...he is either
A. Gay B. Interested in someone else more. c. Gay D. does not want to get involved with a co-worker E. Gay
any possibility that he is a "playa"??? and just out to get what he can..I guess the racy texts have me confused...who started those up first?? you or him??
Mike,
Not sure which of the above, honestly gay would not surprise me due to the stereotypcial info that I have--he is 34, not married, and active in music/drama/theater...
I don't know what it is but no response...
I would honestly be more surpised to find out he is a 'player'....if he was a player why would he not be trying to actually get in my pants vs talking about it???
The texting thing was his idea from the start. There was some inside joke on the speech team about him shopping at Victoria's Secret...apparently he went in to pick up lotion for his best friend's (another teacher) gf one day bc he already happened to be at the mall and talking to bf on the phone. Some high school kids saw him in there and they teased him about it...
So anyway one night he was texting the typical, "How is your evening" stuff, I told him I was at Penney's, he said VS had a better selection...next time I was shopping and he texted I sent him a pic of granny panties when he asked me what I was shopping for...then I sent him a pic of cute panties and asked if that was what he was expecting and it sort of spiraled from there...
So anyway no clue wtf is up. In a later texting convo after he came over to my house at 12:45 am and left at 1:45, he said he left bc I seemed nervous...I said I was surprised he didn't try to kiss me and he said he would have liked to do that and more....
So I am stumped. Before any of the flirty texting we had texted for a week about other harmless things we liked to do (movies, golfing, comedy club) and he kept saying "Should we add that to our list" of things to do together. So it isn't like it was just for hooking up...
Not going to let it ruin my week. I am bummed bc I was really looking forward to kissing! And there was lots of rain tonight...
Actually I worked the track meet tonight and it was tons of fun, it poured down rain for a few minutes a couple times but we kept on going. Girls got fifth, they aren't as good as the boys!
ok BBJ I was relaxing in the bathtub, drinking a cold beer, listening to the radio...the song dust on the bottle came on, and I laughed so hard thinking about some of us here hehehehe...thats bad eh? well not really it included myself lol!!! Hugs to your mom for raising such an amazing woman!!
Yeah, my bottle has quite a layer of dust on it, but once the cork is popped I am sure it has improved with age!
I have a GPS Navigator in my van. When I try taking a different route that it does not like, it has a female voice that says "U turn if possible". I keep thinking that one day it will say "Why dont you just stop and ask someone for directions".
Mine asks me (in a female New Zealand voice) to make a right turn followed by a left turn and I quietly oblige. When I screw up it just says "recalculating" and so I find my way again. The live female voice in the past would say "Damn you! You have no sense of direction!" or "You should have exited there! You always do this and make us late on purpose! Passive Aggressive. I'm going without you next time."
Don't have any idea what this guy is doing, however, he is already becoming the king of going dark. Did he not go dark after your impromptu movie night? Can't remember his excuse....anyways, whatever his excuse, his going dark or at least dim has you going from I am not a booty call to bring it on. Let that be a lesson to ALL the guys here....
Don't have any idea what this guy is doing, however, he is already becoming the king of going dark. Did he not go dark after your impromptu movie night? Can't remember his excuse....anyways, whatever his excuse, his going dark or at least dim has you going from I am not a booty call to bring it on. Let that be a lesson to ALL the guys here....
Yeah, I noticed that myself last week John....touche'! At first when he was texting every evening I was like, geez back off and give me some space, and then when he stopped I was like, what happened?
Not feeling the 'bring it on' so much this morning though....
I thought that statement might make you smile, it sure made me laugh, thinking hmmmmmm we will be one of the best wines in the wine cellar lmao!! Yes its friday! oh guess what? the rain finally got here and I am at work sigh....
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Sigh....I hate it that you guys are right and it makes me feel a little bit stupid for thinking he actually wanted to spend time with me vs. texting me?
Oh well, time to shake that etch-a-sketch I call a brain and walk on!
I think if all cards are on the table here, I am not missing HIM as much as the experience...like after Dan left there was this vacuum when it came to male interactions and attention...
I got some of that over the fall/winter with a few match guys, but I ended those bc the guys were creepers (except cartoon/artist guy, but he said he was too dark and twisty for me--still grieving his own divorce process--so I decided to take his word for it! Last I need is more dark/twisty guys)
Anyhow then who shows up but a guy I have known at least casually since we went to HS together, we have a lot in common, like similar things and have similar sense of humor. Plus he was totally laying on the compliments about how I am beautiful and smart and nice plus wants to see me naked...
So anyway need to remember that I am awesome whether some guy is noticing it or not!
