Trusting,

Maybe X will actually learn something at church.

I guess I look at it this way: X was weak and I try to think of him that way as I work towards forgiveness. However, I would be dishonest and not fair to my own healing if I didn't admit that I do not wish them well.

As far as FIL w/new girlfriend....it seems that there are some real weak people you are dealing with here, with some dependency issues.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D