My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

Yep, my urge to "bug" the ow has come back. The last time I tried to call her she got so annoyed that I think she backed off and that is why my h came back. He came back and I blew it and didn't fully get him to commit by removing her from his life completely. I could just kick myself.

So what would happen if I "bugged" her again and she backed off my h and he panicked some and I wasn't as available?

I am crazy, I admit it.