Huband is having an emotional affair

[ALJ]

Sigh. You are right Allen, I should have known better. Why would I think that me arguing my point to him would do any good? What's really weird is that I am not the arguing type. I guess I started to feel hopeless about our situation and was trying to make him see my point of view. Instead, he made me look like I was crazy and told me I didn't know what I was talking about, especially when I started talking about emotional affairs.

H is not going to ask me where I have been or inquire about anything about me, even if he doesn't hear from me in a while but that is not important. Of course, the aruging did not solve a thing, it just reinforced all the points that you made above. I will not do that again and I have to get my DR book out and go over the LRT. I have forgotten some important information concerning how to put it into action since I have not read it in a while.

I have started walking 5 or more miles a day and have started volunteering at the hospital again. Summer is almost here and I really want to enjoy it because it goes by so fast. Detachment is not an easy thing for me but I do not want to be ill because of what H is doing.