Time for darkness.... (thread number 3)ears open

[james217]

As long as your scared you won't be able to effectivly address your situation.

I know that for a while I was totally scared to even email my wife because I was so nervous about how she would reply.

I would seriously debate for days on whether or not I should even say "hi" to her.

Once I let that go, and it took some time, but once I did I was able to talk to her with confidence again and not really worry about her reactions.

As you know, I asked her if she wanted to go to the zoo with me one day.

In the past, I would be FREAKING waiting for her to reply... But this time, it was just kind of a "hey, would you like to do this? If not, it's cool" and I truly wouldn't have minded if she said no, because lets face it, the zoo is FUN, and it would be her loss to not go!

Know what I mean?

As long as you're that scared, you won't react to situations properly.

when we're in person I'm fine for the most part. we're usually laughing joking, hugging, kissing, and just having alot of fun. on the phone I get nervous. when we text I get nervous. Hence the reason for darkness I guess. Our 3 dates were very very good and now she's just like eerily quiet.

I mean she's the one who initiated the ML i let her bring that to me. It was repeated numerous times and then she goes to court with me then we go to lunch then she disappears?

a few texts no calls just pretty much silence. I would have expected the opposite? I would have expected her to pursue? especially now that i'm not talking to her?

what do I know man. *sighs*