Update...

Work is getting worse - I can't believe what they expect from their staff. Its not legal and it certainly not right! Its killing my GAL. I haven't had time to work out since I started - which is BAD! I'm still looking for something else but until then...

H is holding my loan MOD hostage unless I agree to his terms. I have told him I won't talk to him about anything till he signs it. We will see where that goes.....UGH.

Venting.....
He has the balls to tell me that we shoudln't be enemies - we have too much history not to get along. We don't have to be friends but we have alot in common so there's no reason we can't get along despite our differences..... PUKE. HISTORY... REALLY... we didn't have enough history for him not the have an affair, walk out on the marriage or even TRY one ounce of work to save the marraige... but we have enough history to get along.... WTF IS THAT??? I freaked out - was sobbing in tears. Where does he get off being that way?? I can't stand the crazy world he lives in - we have so much history we should at least salvage civility. He's an F*ing moron.......

End Rant.....

On the better side - I've had several very good dates and that has been fun. I'm truly ready to be with someone else - REALLY looking forward to it. Just need to get this pesky divorce out of the way.

Plan:
Get H to sign the papers by letting him think I'll do what he wants.
As soon as papers are signed/processed serve him with D papers that I am currently having prepared.
See him in mediation.....

I'm SO ok with this plan! wink

T


ME28,WAH30, M 5YRS, T 7YRS ,OW/ILYBNILY/SEP 9/09
Served with D papers 6/6/10
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