Hey NM! So happy to have you back! I will check that book out!

It has been almost 2 wks since d man called so think he gave up!

I am not sure how to answer your question...I think I am happy by nature sometimes? I have to be happy and upbeat with my job but am not always that way! I think that part of my R issue is that I did depend on my H for my happiness and I think he did me too! I am sure that is why it took me so stinkin' long to get to where I am now!!!! I am also sure that H is looking for OW to find happiness.....

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing