W still wants separation, need to DB more

[TrentC]

Well it's baby steps yes but my W is still very cold toward me. Not the person I knew for 10 years, sometimes it is tough to look past. I try to keep my own emotions in check and detach.

But to be fair, it's only been the last day or two that you have started to modify your approach.

People have likened it to trying to catch a squirrel; if you chase it, it will run away. If you sit there and are calm, its curiosity will lead it to you.