He'll text something to the effect of "I don't know what to do". When I ask about what he'll say "us". I will always take the bait and tell him I don't believe in divorce, and so on. I call this his way of checking I'm still in the game and available to reconcile. He does seem very nervous when I pull away... I need to work undoing it for longer periods.
He also gets antsy when I don't respond quickly...it is almost like texting terrorism. Hahaha. The other night he sent three texts in about thirty minutes and the last one was "are you alright"? So yes, he does still seem to care in some weird dilusional way.
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present
