Piano... you are all over the place worrying about this guy.
SHUT HIM OUT.. just SHUT him OUT of your LIFE until he GROWS the HELL UP
I read post after post saying you are going to be focussing your baby and yourself and all of this and then a post later you are agonizing over your H wondering about him having a nervous breakdown and that he really wanted to come into your place etc...
BACKBURNER THIS FOOL and MEAN it.. don't say "I am focussing on me and my baby" and then agaonize over him for the next four posts.. SHUT HIM OUT and MEAN it.
I don't care if his BIL say's he's having nightmares... YOu are the one who IS BEING VIOLATED HERE..
My dear, your HUSBAND is a FREAKIN DRAMA QUEEN and YOU are his BIGGEST FAN!!!
END CONTACT with him and STICK TO IT!!! THat means NO ASKING BIL about your H, no emailing H, no texting H, no NOTHING, not even THINKING about him.. zERO
if HE contacts YOU.. you HANG UP
Do NOT let him into yoru HOME.. PERIOD
You are hopping around so much you are just emulating HIS BEHAVIOUR.. how can you expect a solid commitment from HIM when YOU keep flip flopping your position on him?
One day you won't let him in your home, and the next you are talking to BIL about him having nightmares and nervous breakdowns.. you are NOT making a commitment to yourself and your baby, you are jumping back and forth JUST LIKE YOUR HUSBAND IS
You are going to give YOURSELF a nervous breakdown..
BACK-BURNER THIS FOOL and MEAN IT!!!
Otherwise YOU are going to put YOURSELF in the HOSPITAL and that ain't good for ANYONE!!!
