Originally Posted By: nicole8
One thing I will never understand is how my h can be so cruel and go againtst all his morals.


This is why they call it the "fog". There are some former walk-away spouses that post here; they can possibly give you more insight than I can.

As much as it sucks, you may have to accept that you will never understand why they chose to leave the way they did.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."