Ok Folks. I need a sanity check. STBXW called to manipulate the schedule again. She wants me to take Kids this weekend while she works - I'm ok with that. In return she gets next weekend. Additionally, she wants me to take kids the following weekend cause she will be out of town presumably with OM.

I'm really tired of this schedule stuff. Am I being an AH if I say that I have plans with the kids next weekend and the following weekend I'm not available?

This may be a very basic question but I can't help but feel like I'm being used as a babysitter. She like to throw up the fact that she helps me when I go out of town. True she does but I don't need her to do that. I just give her the option. Now she is threatening me with changing the parenting plan so she has the Kids every weekend except when she works.

I am so sick of this crap.

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Me-41
W-39
M-15 yrs T-17 yrs
D-12
S-9
S-8
B 5/08
S 1/09