Trusting, Here are some random thoughts for you:

-Your X probably lied about you to them.
-He's still their kid. Chances are that they were ashamed and embarrassed but he's still their kid, you know?
-OW may have put on a glowy face to ensure that they were sucked in. But her glow has likely worn off. Given what you shared about your X and OW, that's a safe bet.
-Your X's lies may be more transparent now.
-Your X's MLC may be more transparent now. He's obviously not happy and you are out of the picture--so what's up with that?
-They may be wondering what they missed with all this, since X is STILL not happy and you clearly have nothing to do with it.
-You may be looking golden at this time.

I suggest a generic response!


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D