I am trying to GAL and be "living" too.... Thanks for the explanation Trent. I made an appointment to talk with a db coach. I am speaking with someone different this time because of my schedule. I didn't want to switch coaches but I will be curious if I get the same advice or maybe something different. I don't know. We'll see how it goes.
I haven't heard from my h for two days. I guess his fantasy life is more important at this point. I know I need to stop focusing on him but it is so hard. I am really looking forward to talking with a db coach.
One thing I will never understand is how my h can be so cruel and go againtst all his morals.
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present