I have read some of your posts to other people. They seem very insightful and thoughtful. When you respond on your own thread, to me, you sound very defensive and confrontational. Calm down. When someone says, "get your nuts back", they are saying to be the leader in your family; Be The Man. There is a book by that name, also.
I don't think anyone is making fun of you or joking about STD's or anything else. It's how you refuse to look at your sitch for what it is and arguing with others that what you are doing is working when it is obviously not.
Take a deep breath, slow down and relax. Not easy during this time, I know. People here are trying to help.
