Time for darkness.... (thread number 3)ears open

[james217]

James

There are many wise people here who have kindly given you their time and offered helpful advice when they could have just turned the other way. Even after you repeatedly ignored said advice, they kept trying.

Pretty soon, you are going to alienate everyone who is trying to help you. This is the place to come and let off steam, whine, and say whatever is on your mind instead of saying it to your spouse and driving her further away. It is not the place to continually insult people who are trying to help.

These people don't know you from Adam, yet they care enough to try to help. Listen to them. You don't have to agree with all or any. You do have to respect them.

Anyway, good luck.

And they should have the same respect as well. How would u feel to have an std joked about?

I post a lot on here cause a lot has happened to prevent me from pushing waw away. When I'm pretty new to this and my situation as a whole is somewhat fresh. I wonder if people treated them the same way were they dealt with so harshly for backsliding and making mistakes?

I see and read a lot of stories on here. Where a lot of people have consistnetly messed up even some of the vets have admitted it. So why not be patient with someone who is totally confused?

When I think I'm doing something right its wrong. Its one of the issues I'm dealing with in counseling because I consistently have been brow beaten and criticized and micromanaged my whole life.

Yesterday when I went to the interview my mother came inside and acted like I don't know nothing. When I called the school I got yelled at some more for not letting her do it cause I don't know what I'm doing.

I come on here and hear more of the same. Then waw has me totally confused with the intimacy and then nc for 3 days.

One of them being me in darkness myself.