Yes you are right - when I consider the big picture here the trajectory of my situation has never changed really - it has been on a slow march to oblivion. That realization hit me when she finally rented a place and I know she isn't bluffing. It has finally allowed me to let go. I really feel the detachment now. I am starting to look forward to a life without her, because the one I have with her is the pits.
I will tell her I want her out, but I have to do it in a way that still supports my prior position of waiting to allow the kids to finish school before disrupting their lives. I think I will tell her I am looking forward to having her out (which I am actually) but still believe it is best for our kids if we don't dump this on them until June, but what is her plan at this point now that she forked out the cash to rent that place?
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline
