SC, Well, I'm not surprised that he's trying to play mind games w/you....that explains why he needed an answer like yesterday. If he returns back home, he will expect the world to revolve around him, i.e, you cooking, cleaning, washing and basically everything else as well. If he's going to write, that means many, many hours of peace and quiet. With his thinking process bouncing all over the place, I don't see him being able to concentrate for periods of time....the walking on eggshells will be enforce all over again.
The question is this...just how long will he be under your roof again before running. He's not wanting to reconcile because he wants the marriage to work, he's doing it because he needs a place to stay and someone to help foot the bills. But, then again, what do I know?
I would think long and hard about what he's laid on you....do you think that you and your children are up to another round of the man/child being there 24/7?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
