Also what should I do about the living arragements? I believe it would be better if he moved out for awhile and maybe he would realize what he had, like the saying you never know what you have until it is gone and maybe he wouldn't but you never know. Would it be best to just agree to a schedule with our kids and do not see eachother except a small amount of time before we go to bed, and he sleeps on the couch and I sleep in our bed and it has been this way for months now. I NEED HELP!
