Thanks for that. And yeah, I didn't respond to her asking me why I'm ignoring her.
Yeah, I started this whole thing wrong. I was terrified of pretty much everything. I didn't stand up to her, I did everything wrong. Begged, pleaded my case, became unreasonable, ect. We all know the bad stuff. I've really felt like over the last few days that I have started standing up for myself. I think that right now, we're at a point where she's trying to figure out just how serious I am or if I'm just going to end up backing back down again. I know that I've got to be more assertive and when I do, don't start falling back into my old ways and backtrack. I know that's what she's waiting for. I'm just trying to find that balance between standing up for the boundaries that I laid out yesterday and what I've said so that she knows that I am serious and that, yeah, maybe I do have a backbone; and just coming off like an ass that's just being spiteful and childish.
