New and Needing Advice (Long)

[DownNotOut...yet]

It is all a game. Why are you ignoring her? If you respond, obviously you are NOT ignoring her. These little texts are sort of like tests to see if she still has her hooks in you and to what degree she still controls you. She plays the guy on the internet in the evening and you in the day.

Why are you ignoring me?? I would ignore that. Do not even respond.

Why are you being an ass all of a sudden, do not respond. Do not get sucked into juvenile stuff like that. BTW, when you start really standing up for yourself, she is gonna say stuff way, way way worst to you than that.

I would respond to about every 5th text. If you have to respond to why are you ignoring me, the answer might be, "I am not interested in interacting with a cheating wife." Then say NO more.

It is easy for me to say now, having been in your place however this thread, to me, reads that you have a wife/sitch that is manageable but you need to get the balls to really stand up for yourself.

Yes she will get pissed, it is clear you are terrified of rocking the boat...boat gotta get rocked. There is no other way.