Ok now I feel guilty....the first four years of Nathan's life I never had a babysitter and we lived in different states so I had no family to step in...part of how/why Dan and I drifted apart, no 'us' time...
But now between my parents, his parents, and joint custody, I have loads of free evenings...that is something that would be tough to give up in order to reconcile...that and closet space!
