Need a Plan for My Marriage

[LSG]

Hi DaddyLongShanks,

I really appreciate your kinds words. I am trying to head the advice of everyone that is being so kind to respond to my sitch. I think I have not presented myself very well her and have solicited some of the responses that show me lacking in certain areas. I have been to some extent that way from what WAW's affair. It hurt me really bad, and I sure did make a lot of mistakes, and I came off bad. That is not who I am trying to be today, at this moment.

When we were in MC, our counselor told her that she was wrong for doing this to me and he respected the strength and honor I had shown when I exposed the affair in counseling. She was apologetic for getting caught but that did not last long. He told me that there are plenty of woman that would like what I have to offer. He still apologizes that he could not do more to help us. She was suppose to stop all contact with the OM and signed a contract to have counseling to do this. She lied to all of there. We had a man and a woman counselor together to avoid any issue of bias that I felt with our first counselor where she just said it is okay because that is how she feels. I hired a counselor with some money I save to take a trip together.

Anyways, she has not once shown remorse since that day. She asked if the counselor dropped us. She said that was very unprofessional. I told that she signed a contract and he had every right to drop us because she did not make the comittment to him and lied to all of us. I asked her, "what did you expect?" She blames everyone else and has this I am better than everyone else. Anyways, I am going on and on today.