Thanks for the encouragement. I'll try and respond to everything in a few minutes, but I have a situation just pop up and was hoping someone could help. Like I said, I've more or less stopped taking care of her, not being mean, but not falling over myself to help her. Well, we haven't talked all day today, and I just got an email from her that just says "why are you ignoring me?" What's the best way to respond to that?