Update: Been awhile, and my situation is absolutely driving me crazy. She remains in the house, continues the affair, is wearing an engraved watch that dbag gave her, and is doing nothing to move along our dissolution. I tried talking it out with her, and she still won't do anything. She is nice to my face, but passive aggressive, staying out late, going on trips, etc. I feel absolutely handcuffed.
I feel like filing for divorce will simply take even more money and more time to complete, but I don't know if I have any other choices? She won't leave my house, won't get out and move on with her life. And it's not like I'm making it cozy for her.
Advice?
Norse
I am in the SAME boat as you are right now. I am filing.
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10