thanks TF, Trent, Jack, Mermaid, Celestial, OldPilot, FIB, Trapt, Eric, CW! i actually told my IC about this forum and how it's been a huge support. i wish no one had to go through this but it is helpful to come to a place where people really understand what you're going through.
Me 30, H34, M7years Bomb dropped 5/09, S8/09, Living together 2/10 (due to external forces)