who would you really be hurting by sending that text this weekend? if she's on a romantic getaway with her OM, i hardly think a text message is going to damper the mood for her. most likely she wouldn't give it a second thought.
are there other legal matters you need to discuss with her? why not send her a letter or email and let her know there are a few financial matters you need to discuss with her and ask her when she is available for that, but set a time line. say, can we meet or talk in the next week to go over these things? you don't need to involve her dad, she's a grown up and can handle her own financial situation, right?
acting out of vengance will only push her even further from you, and she will pick up on your motive if you text her that this weekend.
Me30 H29 M2.5 T5 H moved out 1/23/2010 H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010 ...feeling hopeless
