Wow, Andabelle! you have quite a memory!! I know many of those icky phrases have run thru my head recently, with appropriately snarky come-backs!
interesting that the excuse xH used to me for ending it with the witch is that she wouldn't have a relationship with D14. That didn't seem to bother him for a couple of years, until the new one came along; I think this is post-mortem justification! But whatever. in that explanation was the first time he mentioned the woman's name to me--and the shift in his attitude and response is giving me whiplash.
Yeah, it would be great karma for him to be sick and alone in the dark without heat in the wintertime--ugh! flashbacks! But he'd just charm somebody into taking him in, it would never happen.
BTW--just remembered. I kept getting emails from xH's church about youth group activities for D14, which irritated me. Finally last week I answered one of them, and told them that it would be too confusing to have my daughter involved in a faith community that supports adultery after all the ways she has suffered as a result of it. So would you be so kind as to remove me from your email lists, thankyouverymuch.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012