I think you mean "Words of Affirmation". There is no "verbal" love language.

I agree with the others. You may be surprised that what you think is her love language may not be right. They say that people will treat others with their own love languages. So if your W used to encourage you alot, then "Words of Affirmation" would be correct.

If it is her love language, then you need to start giving her compliments here and there and stop the apologizing for everything you THINK gets her upset.

When you go overboard with the apologies, she'll start seeing you as a "less quality" person so no matter what you compliment her with, she won't hold it in high regard.


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Chaos, yet harmony.
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