No, I've seen it referenced several times but I haven't been able to find it. I've been very interested in reading it.
Well, I finally started sticking up for myself and making things a little more clear, One of the first things that I said was that I am in no way sharing my wife with anyone else and until that changes, she's on her own. No helping her with anything, no more responding to her chit-chat texts because she's bored, she's taking care of herself. So, I did what you suggested and left all of her bathroom stuff and some clothes for her and told her that she was not welcome in the master bedroom last night. So, she stayed in her other room, then this morning, threw the door open at around 8:30. She woke me up asking why I wasn't up yet. I told her that since my boss was out of town, I was sleeping in a little. she came and sat on the bed and as soon as she did, she tried touching my arm. I pulled my arm away and said that I had to get ready for work. Right before I left, she asked if I could get her coffee first, I said no and bye. She's definitely in more of a bad/depressed mood today, skipping work, again. So, I guess I should read that post on boundaries and see what I am doing wrong.
