well, the wicca woman OW/gf now knows he's a narcissist (well, I have a hunch that she is too!) but the new gf has not figured it out yet. she's a therapist--she ought to catch on fairly quickly, I would think. All that matters to me right now is that D14 is happy and at peace. I will hold the attitude that these relationships are temporary--because I feel awful that she will likely get attached and then feel abandoned when it's over.
but aside from that, it's none of my business. still, watching some karma in action is kinda rewarding.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012