SR, it's time to stop caretaking her. She's a big girl and it's her job to ask you for money or help paying the bills if she needs it. I know you're worried that she's pushing for D because of financial issues, but I don't think you can fix this by making things more financially comfortable for her right now.
Sounds like the dinner went well.
(((SR)))
SR - I agree with Flowmom. Perhaps if you didn't make it so easy on her she might not find it so easy to walk away from you. Stop being so nice. You don't have to be mean, but I don't think you are getting anywhere by offering her money/help at every corner. JMO.
