Someone asked this of me, "So, how is that working out for you? Taking care of others and not yourself?"
For me? Not so good. I was miserable, hurt and angry and had a lot of self pity, self loathing. Blaming OTHERS for my unhappiness. You need to be the change you want to see.
Me: WAW/MLC 41 H: 42 M: 16 yr T: 20 Me: EA/PA started Sept 2008 D: Anytime, just need to sign papers http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1968939&page=1