It's hard to say what your H's apparent interest in your health is. Could be care for you but I have to say that it's worth looking at it cynically too. Do you want it to come up in a custody case that you're taking non-prescribed anti-anxiety pills or that you have health or mental problems? You need to keep your cards close to your chest right now.
I have to say that this occurred to me, too. That he could be gathering information on your mental/physical health that he might use against you later. I know it's probably hard to hear that, but he is not on your side right now. I would follow FMs lead and not reveal to him any more information, just in case. I know it must be so hard, Hope, to not take in what seems like caring interest from H when you sometimes feel so hungry for it, but aside from asking that he take S if you're not well, I would stay mum and count on other friends and family for support and counsel regarding health.
I hope everything's ok- didn't realize you'd been to Dr, etc. Let us know what's going on if you feel comfortable. God knows stress does weird, horrible things to our minds and bodies. My immune system is taking a huge hit, I think, and the sleeplessness we're all suffering doesn't help.
-J/J/A/what do I call myself now?!
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.
