When I say I need to get angry it's for motivation. I am not doing well just being sad. It's only doing me harm so it's time to stop.
Here here [that is me applauding]. I think that healthy, self-protective anger at a situation that is used to prompt action for change is a positive thing.
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I have tried not to get my kids in the middle. Their dad has done that by not coming home or coming home so late. They are concerned and then I have to deal with it which brings them inbetween.
This is so unfair. I guess all we can do is our best- your kids are old enough to know who's doing what here and to appreciate all you're doing to protect and take care of them.
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I will never be irrational. I'm not that kind of person. This sadness has taken it's toll on me but I still have my head on straight.
It sure sounds like you do. But let's not let it take anymore toll on you- or minimize it. What are your actions you're going to take for the next couple of days to fight the sadness and move yourself forward?
((Luv))
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.
