TF, Thanks, for the words of encouragement, you seem to be in a similar place. Cat & Jack were right about the race not being over, but I like the analogy too. I think that for you and I we look forward to when we can start to piece or rebuild the M. I still am waiting for the words to come "I want to work on us" or whatever those words may be. I want to hear them....to me that is the finish line of the race we are currently running, there is no doubt that the the race will continue on.
So my W backed out on the cookout with friends this Saturday, but wants to rescheduled. She felt bad because she had told her soroity sisters she would go out to eat with them b/c a long lost sister was going to be in town. (a little weak IMO but believable).
As we were talking just now on the phone about rescheduling a cookout with friends, she said that we could do it during the week too, maybe on "Little Friday". Well today is "Little Friday". For those of you who know me, you know what "Little Friday" is. Here a link, post number 1941716 Little Friday .
My W was coming over to the house tonight anyhow to watch our S9 while I take D13 to therapy. Call this pursuing, but I suggested that we have "Little Friday" on our back Patio tonight after D13 and I get back......She accepted invite. In fact she is going to cook dinner before hand also. D13 has soccer practice then therapy, so while D13 is at practice we will cook something on the grill.
Positive I guess, not sure but whatever it is I know its not bad.
Happy Little Friday Everyone......Corona's and Bob Marley at my house later tonight, everyone is welcome!!!!
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.